There’s something about the open road that pulls at all of us, but let’s be honest—hitting the highway for a cross-country adventure gets a bit more complicated as the years stack up. If your retired parents are getting that travel itch (again) and dreaming about scenic highways, local diners, or maybe even a detour to that world’s-biggest-ball-of-yarn they keep talking about, you want to make sure they’re ready for the adventure. Plus, you’d probably prefer not to spend half the trip worrying about them.
Here’s how to help Mom and Dad prepare for a memorable—and safe—road trip, whether they’re leaving from your driveway or their senior living community.
Start With the Car (Because Nobody Wants to Be Stranded)
Before anyone even thinks about playlists or packing snacks, give the car a real once-over. Schedule a maintenance check: oil, brakes, tire tread and pressure, windshield wipers, fluids, and lights. If the A/C sputters or the “check engine” light is glowing, fix it now. A lot of shops offer “road-trip inspections” these days, which is perfect if your parents haven’t had one in a while.
And about that spare tire—make doubly sure it’s there, inflated, and the tools are handy. Flat tires don’t time themselves for when someone’s around to help.
Map Out the Route…But Keep It Flexible
GPS is magical, but paper maps are still worth packing. Cell service gets dodgy in some rural places, and there’s a certain comfort in tracing your route old-school style. Help your parents pick out potential stops, rest areas, or places with easy food. Research hotels with high ratings for cleanliness and accessibility. Some folks love to “see where the day takes them,” but a loose plan beats sleepy arguments in a parking lot at midnight.
Comfort Is Key (Think Pillows, Snacks, and Stops)
Older travelers need to be comfy or the fun goes out the window. Pack lumbar pillows or seat cushions, and encourage stretching or short walks at rest stops—hello, happy joints and better circulation. Stash healthy snacks, bottled water, and travel mugs for coffee. If your parents have medications, make a checklist. Pill organizers, a copy of their prescriptions, and a note about allergies or conditions tucked in the glovebox can make a world of difference.
Stay Healthy, Stay Safe
Review their meds and make sure they have enough (plus a little extra in case of delays). Toss in a mini first-aid kit and masks, just in case. If your parents have a medical alert device, remind them to keep it on, even if they “never need it.” And don’t forget hand sanitizer—you know it’ll come in handy.
Tech Up the Trip
If your folks are willing, help them set up their phone with travel apps for gas prices, weather, or hotel booking. Teach them how to share their location with you or a sibling—it’s reassuring for everyone, not just the “worried ones.” Bring chargers and backup batteries; lost phones are no fun, but dead ones are even worse.
Share the Checklist, But Respect Their Style
Older adults are pros at road trips, and they’ve likely picked up their own rhythm. Still, a gentle checklist helps—it can be easy to forget the little things..
Wishing your parents safe travels isn’t just about crossing your fingers. With a little planning, they’ll be well on their way to making new stories (and bringing back that T-shirt you didn’t ask for, but will secretly love). Road trips after retirement? Still the stuff of legends.